just woke up... yawnz.Glad to hear that everyone is having fun and getting themselves preoccupied. Well, a week of Army life is really a once in a lifetime experience. Get to meet different people. Many looked tense throughout the entire week. Ha except me, while marching i can still afford to smile and wave to say hi to haihan and many of friends from other company. The officers in charge are pretty lenient, i mean its relative. Went into ns a different person and pretty glad i did. Dunno y but now reasoning governs
me. Yupz, glad to be in the same bunk as zhicao, a nice chinese high guy. Sad to say, but many in my platoon come to me and a few others to complain that that chinese high guy complains a lot. And that AC guy has a big ego.
On Sunday something queer occurred. Well basically , my platoon has some black sheep and when we were assigned a task, something went wrong. As expected we were reprimanded, dunno what came to my mind. After we were dismissed, I spoke in front of the platoon and encouraged everyone to preserve to unite and accept one another's differences. To think of the person beside you at every point of time. After which, gradually, many came up to me to give me a pat on the back to tell me they really respected what i said individually. Weird rite.
Guess being in 3 different non-affiliated schools from young really widened my social circle, it kind of taught me how to approach different people to look into everyone's strength. Still, vividly telling some that everyone is a leader in one way or another and that every single person is an important individual of the platoon.
A smile and an open heart is always fundamental in winning people's respect. On the flipside, i am having difficulty in trying to accept that my reasoning and not entirely my emotions that determines my actions...
A smile and relax look helps to ease the atmosphere around you, it adds on a smile to others as well. Complaining merely adds up to the tension.
Dont try to lead ,by strive to serve or else there are people who gonna criticise. One in my platoon is facing such crisis. and again he was from tchs then nj then hcjc. Sigh ...
Pray that he will realise his mistake.
Me kind of detest the mentality of army officers, they are despos really, so whenever they indulge in unhealthy stuff, me kind of start thinking of the contents of the storybook i've brought or perhaps hum some hymns to myself.
Still cant understand why there are many who aim for ocs?
Really doubt they understand the meaning of being a leader. Respect is from the heart, rank merely instills fear.
And the worse thing is that when you graduate form ocs, you might just lose the child like nature in you, ha perhaps its jus me la .
One more thing to add, i lost my appetite there, 5 spoons of rice every meal. THe food is horrible, i can cook better lo.
Ha...
Happy new year to all.
Take care and god bless :)